Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Hope and Help

If Metro paid me to stand on my local train station bridge, and only paid me a few dollars per person who approached me instead of the PSOs to ask directions, I would be on a fast track to wealth. I don't know what it is that attracts people or makes me come across as approachable. I mainly have men and older people approach me for help- perhaps because I look friendly or non-threatening. Whatever it is, I am happy to help (so long as they respect me and don't cross too far over the creepy line). 

On Friday I stood at the station for around 45 minutes and was approached by about 6 different people needing help. That didn't surprise me, there are always commuters from elsewhere or unsure where to go (specially now with the station upgrades and new platforms), what surprised me was that time after time they chose to approach me rather than the Protective Services Officers. I guess it stands to reason that some do have a subconscious distrust of the uniforms (though it doesn't make sense to me), but why trust a random young woman who is standing in one spot for so long?

I'm 26, medium height and build with blue eyes and brown hair. I dress well most of the time and use only a small amount of makeup for the most part. I smile often and keep mostly to myself unless approached. Personally, I can usually sense if someone is not on the level. Maybe then, I exude some kind of energy that reassures others that I am kind, patient and helpful. Maybe the men just like talking to women (and let's face it, even I can admit that I am much more attractive than most people in my area). Maybe it's just the fact that there is someone around and they are getting desperate. If you know, let me know too!

As always,

May the luck of the Irish be with you!

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